Memories

Sometimes, it’s our memories that help us move forward in life. The memories of love shared with family, the memories of fun and eventful experiences, and even the difficult events we encounter give us memories.

I want to share a memory of my family before we’re all gone. Of my original family, we are now down to 2. Below is a picture of the last time we were all together at my parents’ 50th wedding anniversary. You can see the small children up front – they are now married with children. A picture of a wonderful memory.

Some memory makers are items that belong to those we love. My mother and I are big collectors of trinkets. Many of her trinkets were Hummel figurines; my trinkets are various animals, including both land and water animals. I even have a Christmas tree that features many animals from the ocean. Below are pictures of a few of my animal trinkets. Elephants have always been special to me, thanks to a memory of a favorite red stuffed elephant that my grandmother gave to me when I was very young.

My animal trinkets even get into my planters for the living room.

Last year, I lost my brother to ALS. The second sibling lost to that horrid disease. My brother’s disease was attributed to dementia, evidently a common occurrence. Today, I received a package from his partner that contained a trinket of my mother’s that my brother had taken when she died because of what it meant to her. I don’t remember much of why it was important, but it stayed prominently on her shelf in the living room. I do remember its name, “Bluto”, because one of the children could not say Pluto. I think it was my oldest sister, but I am not sure.

This is Mickey Mouse’s dog, Pluto.

You can see he is now on the shelf with the rabbits, foxes, and bears. Some of the rabbits and other dogs are in miniature form.

We all have things that remind us of wonderful memories. May they always be fun and loving memories that show the world can always be kind if it will just try.

A (silly) Sad Day

There are many things we eat in our childhood that become favorites. They remind us of fun times, favorite gatherings, and foods we prefer because that is what we are used to.

In May of 2012, I moved from the heat of the deep south to the Quad Cities of Iowa/Illinois. When we got here (I remind you it was early May) we had to dig out light sweaters for the evenings. Now that we are acclimated here, we are still in short sleeves in the 60s. It’s funny how we change. I would probably pass out in the heat of the south – oh wait, we are having that heat here in the Midwest this summer. 🥵

But the thing I miss the most is the food I grew up on. Even the taste of food when eating out (at some of the same chains) doesn’t taste the same. One of the things I get teased about here (beside my southern accent) is my preference in bread. I don’t want wheat bread, whole grain bread, or other fancy breads (although rye is pretty good with ham). I want plain white bread, but not just any white bread – but batter whipped Sunbeam bread.

The batter whipped process creates a soft smooth slice of yumminess.

When I was young, we had a Flowers’ Bakery in our town (which makes Sunbeam bread), and when you drove by there the smell would just make you want to stop the car and sniff the sir. The plant closed while I was in college but the plant in Thomasville, Ga. is still going strong.

In June when I went down to Atlanta to see my brother, I brought back four loaves of bread and put them in the freezer. I was not disappointed by the smell, taste, and texture of my memory. Sadly, yesterday, I pulled out the last loaf. 🥺

I tried looking everywhere here for this iconic bread and no stores here carry this brand. They used to, as several I have talked with remember it but now it is among the missing.

So that will be a staple for every trip south to buy this bread. I thought of buying it online but can they really guarantee its freshness and keep it from getting squashed? Do you have favorites that you remember from childhood that you can no longer find? I know for some it is certain candies.

Oh, well. I will savor this last loaf because fresh tomatoes out of the garden that are made into a sandwich using this bread…absolute heaven.

Smile and laugh with me and always remember to share the kindness bug. There are so many ways to be kind to all kinds and we need to do it often.

Always be kind!